Cheaters, players, two timers… what ever you want to call it. I don’t get them and because of that, I am not judging them. But what bothers me is that if you’re not happy with the relationship you’re in… why not leave? And if you are, then why cheat?

I don’t get it, I really don’t. Some even take pride that they’re with two people at the same time like its a badge of honor of  some sort. They wear it proudly like a crown those kids in Toddlers & Tiara’s wear. The sad part is, most of them seem to think like its just a game wherein the trophy of the winner would be the losers heart in a silver platter; the more heart you break the better. If it is, then what a sick kind of game to play.

Or is it simply a hobby, a past time when boredom strikes? Well if it is, I hope God doesn’t get bored and decides to fuck with your life as well.

Is it to break someones heart? Is it for ultimate satisfaction? Is is because the first person doesn’t really fill your love quota or is it just because it actually makes you feel good about yourself and makes you superior to everyone else? It seriously baffles me.

Some people even has the guts to spread their exploits out for the world to read. Most of them attention seekers that is usually open to anyone who’d listen. Pathetic. And it makes me ask myself if these people have no regard for the feelings that’s not their own. Devastating how people do it openly nowadays.

I mean, how can you see that person that makes your heart race and stomach haze and not feel contented? How can you look into those deep mazes they call eyes and not feel guilty?

However, it did occur to me that sometimes cheating might be the only way to spare someone of the pain. But then do you think he/she would not be in pain when she/he finds out that you’ve been leading he/she on? Spare the pain for later then? Maybe honesty is the best policy. Just be honest rather than cheat, you’ll end up hurting the other person if you don’t tell them the truth.

It just irks me because for me cheating is deliberately hurting someone who cares for you. For the cheaters out there, I am not judging you. I’m just stating my opinion.

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